Saturday, September 24, 2022

30 Days of Haiga 2022: So Done with Diet Culture

 


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this body once lean and flat

has become hilly and fat

I am tired of stale advice

anything but fresh and nice


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Thursday's D'Verse Poets prompt requested couplets.

https://dversepoets.com/2022/09/22/mtb-two-by-two/

The Saturday Mix gave us the word pairings flat and hilly and stale and fresh.

https://mindlovemiserysmenagerie.wordpress.com/2022/09/24/opposing-forces-saturday-mix-24-september-2022/

Now, you might be thinking to yourself "how in the world is Ornery going to make that work? There aren't any Japanese poetry forms that use couplets!"

That's what I was thinking myself, but I did a little research, and there kind of is one. It's called the Kouta.

https://poetscollective.org/poetryforms/tag/japanese/

The Kouta 小唄 (little or short song) is a popular Japanese verse form of the Muromachi Period, 14th thru 16th century.  The lyrical song was resurrected as a Geisha song in the late 1800s and is still popular today. The form has several variations, though always short in only 4 lines a 5th line is sometimes is added.  The theme reflects ordinary life and often uses colloquialisms and onomatopoeia.  The most popular are love songs.  The elements of Kouta are:

a poem in 4 lines. (an occasional 5th line may appear)

a stand alone poem but often is accompanied by other Koutas with the same theme.

syllabic, variable odd numbered syllable lengths, the most common patterns are written in lines of alternating 7-5-7-5 syllables or 7-7-7-5 syllables. 

secular, personal, themes of ordinary life

often includes onomatopoeia.

My brain is too tangled to think of even spelling onomatopoeia let alone trying to write a poem containing such. I also tweaked the rules a bit. Every line has seven syllables.

What's the poem about? In brief, about being a fat person just trying to live life and accept myself as I am in a society rampant with hateful messages about people who look like me, as well as all manner of unsolicited diet advice. I've written many posts about this subject so I will not go into it too deeply here, but diets don't work, in fact, for most people, they do more harm than good. 

There's a place where people can put any unwanted diet advice they may have for me. It's called Where The Sun Don't Shine.

I created the Haiga with Pixlr.com and a free-use image by Bianca Van Dijk on Pixabay.

https://pixabay.com/illustrations/boho-art-female-body-woman-7450246/

It's amusing in a depressing sort of way to search for images of plus-size women. Many people seem to think that plus size means anything with more girth than a twig. 


Anyway, you are welcome to use the Haiga (illustrated poem, whatever) but if you do, please credit Cara Hartley/Ornery Owl and provide a link back to this blog.

~Ornery Owl Has Spoken~


Ornery Owl, learning to respond to hunger cues after decades of Yo-Yo dieting
Free use image from Open Clipart Vectors


Hangry Wyrm's sage wisdom:
"If you're Hangry, eat!"
Do not come between Hangry and her food. She will stab you with her fork.
Free use image from Open Clipart Vectors



4 comments:

  1. Jules from MLMM/ I may not be the same weight as I was in HS...
    But I remember some relatives that were perhaps larger than they should have been...so I moderate. I've been the same for several years - healthy but we all could do better.

    Because of age - (I guess in the long run though I am paying for it) I get a free gym membership. Which I use, but maybe should use more ofteh.

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    1. I resist saying things like "larger then they should be" because everyone's size is dependent on multiple factors. I've got more of a tendency to starve myself than to overeat. My thyroid immolated itself when I was in my early teens. About that same time, I became bulimic. I developed PCOS, which leads to weight gain. So, am I "larger than I should be?" Everyone seems to think so. I can't control people's thoughts, but I will no longer allow anyone to disrespect me because I don't look like what they think I "should" look like.

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  2. Wonderful! I'm not sure I was ever "flat," being one ounce under ten pounds when born, but I am much more "hilly" than I used to be!

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    1. I weighed 6 pounds when I was born. I was quite thin as a child and was terrified of becoming fat because everyone treated fat people like crap. I didn't become fat until I was older. I became bulimic at 12. I think there's something wrong with a world where people think that fat is the worst thing a person can be.

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