Showing posts with label body hate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label body hate. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 28, 2015

NaPoWriMo 2015: Day 28: Bridge the Gap



Bridge the Gap

No matter their color
No matter their race
No matter their nationality
No matter their religion

No matter their sex
No matter their gender
No matter their sexual orientation

No matter their size
No matter if you don't think they're attractive

Nobody deserves to be bullied

We are all sisters and brothers
Let us close the chasm between one another
Let us build a bridge

The materials we need in abundance
Are love and tolerance
Kindness and understanding
Peace and harmony

Be a builder
Not a destroyer
Lift others up
Don't tear them down

Together we can build a bridge to a better tomorrow
A bridge to a world with acceptance for all

~Naila~

Notes:
This sort of thing always brings tears to my eyes. It's a very important message. Maybe someday we won't need such messages any more, but today we still do.
No matter a person's color, nationality, race, size, physical appearance, sexual orientation, or religion, nobody deserves to be picked on.
Nobody.
Don't be a bully.

The Prompt:
And now for today’s prompt (optional, as always). Today, I’d like to challenge you to write a poem about bridges. A bridge is a powerful metaphor, and when you start looking for bridges in poems, you find them everywhere. Your poem could be about a real bridge or an imaginary or ideal bridge. It could be one you cross every day, or one that simply seems to stand for something larger – for the idea of connection or distance, for the idea of movement and travel and new horizons.


Monday, October 6, 2014

OctPoWriMo 2014: Day 6


Perfect

Perfect porcelain
You are perfection
My perfectionism
Reveals my imperfect imperfection

~Helena~



Helena's note:
Little girls are taught that we should be perfect like the dolls we're given to play with.
Most of us grow into ordinary-looking women, and we hate ourselves for it.
Something is very wrong with this.


Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Wasted Moments


Wasted Moments
Warning: Post contains NSFW image (nonsexual nudity)

You told me you didn't care
About the size
Of my thighs
That you loved me fat or thin
But my dear, you couldn't win
Against hate so internalized

You said you wanted to see me
But I turned out the lights
We could only make love at night
I despised the body I had
Taught from day one that fat is bad
What I am just wasn't all right

I wasted so much time
Hating myself
Wanting to be someone else
I regret those wasted moments
Blinded by internal torment
Instead of celebrating ourselves

My body is what it is

~Yeris~

Dedicating this to my husband, who will be gone 11 years this February

An amazing photographer who sees the beauty in various body types

This is the body type that I have, and this woman actually looks quite a bit like a younger version of me. 
I never hated other fat people. 
I never used to be able to say the word "fat" without thinking of it as an insult.
I so feared being seen as fat that I did some very damaging things to myself in my younger years to stay thin, although I was never really thin.
With less time and more kids, I became heavier.
This happens to a lot of us, and it isn't something we should be ashamed of. It's just nature.
I only learned in the past few years just how much damage the diet industry does to people. They pull in billions of dollars every year selling shame and self-hate. I refuse to be part of it any more. I thank the friends who introduced me to Health at Every Size and Size Acceptance.

These days I like to look at photos of larger women, either nude or in beautiful clothes, to help remind myself that there's nothing wrong with the body I have.

This is one of my favorite blogs: